Windows 8 Bluetooth Conection Question

Hi, my name is Eric I am have problems getting my HP windows 8 laptop connected to my Bluetooth dongle that came with the ez robot kit. My laptop did not come with Bluetooth on it. I have watched many videos on doing this but when I go through the add device it doesn't find the dongle. I took the dongle apart like DJ showed and pushed the pairing button and got both leds to stay on but no connection or discovery, I have the ez-b power up . I also downloaded the Microsoft Bluetooth stack but still nothing. I have spent a great amount of time trying to get firmware installed with my ez-b. If anyone can give me things to try that the video don't cover I would appreciate. I can get the bluetooth camera to work in ARC. Thanks in advance, Eric